I have to write another post today because I am a tad pissed off about a couple things.
1. Yes I am moving. ONE neighbor saw me putting stuff in my car. I asked her not to talk about it to anyone and now I have all these people that I don’t usually EVER talk to coming up to me asking, “Are you really moving?” WTF Seriously? This is what I was trying to avoid! Plus she’s telling everyone that I’m moving in with my Mother! Why does anyone need to know this??? How did she find out I was moving in with her? I’m so confused and frustrated. I can’t even walk my dog without people coming up to me. I’m just trying to mind my own business and don’t need everyone knowing what’s going on. That’s it! Can’t people leave me alone?
2. My job with original cranky client is to be her care manager. I make all appointments, send receipts to her son weekly, send pictures of important mail to him, and check in on her and her caregivers. How hard is it for the caregivers to LET ME KNOW what’s going on??? I let crankys son know that her doctor was sending therapists to see her last week. We didn’t know when but knew they would be coming. I asked the doctor to have the therapists call me to set appointments. They didn’t. They called her house number and set it up with the caregiver at 8pm last night. And the caregiver DIDN’T TELL ME!!! The appointment is this morning too! Luckily, I don’t have a job to be on this morning so I can go over there to meet the therapists. I needed to go measure the closet and go to Home Depot for the piece of drywall but oh well!
The other caregiver issue is she is talking directly to crankys son but not letting me know what is going on. I usually take a picture of any important mail and text it to him. This past Saturday when I did that, he says, “she already sent that to me.” Well, how was I supposed to know when SHE DIDN’T tell me?!? OMG, this is NOT that hard!
I’m about to ask him why he still has me if he’s just going to have her do my damn job. I’ve been with her over 2 years! He’s talking about changing things next year (no details yet on what might change because honestly what she has now works and shouldn’t change). So he will need me if and when that happens and he has told me that he doesn’t want to lose me. Well, show a bit of respect and keep me posted when you talk to the caregiver then! See, I can’t say this to him because he would get defensive so I’m just ranting on my blog. I don’t know what to do. This is the same issue I had with her full time caregiver. Thankfully she quit and not because of me. I don’t want to lose this caregiver because she’s great although I do need her to tell me what’s going on!
ANYWAY, now I have to go over there to meet therapists instead of getting to relax a little bit. I hope everyone else has a good day! I should have known by the nightmare I woke up to that this wouldn’t be a good day for me!