I went and I am so glad I did! I strayed off the keto plan for the night as I didn’t think there would be anything I could eat or drink and boy was I right!

The best homemade Mexican food, beer, cake. It was all so good! I don’t feel awful this morning but I tried to just have one serving of each thing. I took my bestie with me and we stayed for 5 hours. We didn’t dance because the dancing didn’t start until almost midnight. The birthday girl and her court danced, just not everyone else.

I got hit on by a guy too. I had 3 Modelo’s so I just talked to him. He gave me his phone number and I am definitely not going to call this guy. He barely spoke English, he had coke pinky nails (do y’all know what that is?), and he was saying how he wanted to have babies with me. Uh, no thanks dude!

We had a blast!

My son came home from beach retreat and has not changed. He was cussing up a storm, being rude, and slammed his door after he talked to his grandmother. So I had to get involved. Come to find out, he was having a snow cone while sitting on the couch downstairs and she told him to go outside with it (it was in a cup too). When he didn’t listen or comply, she poured out the rest of the entire gallon of snow cone syrup! What the hell! So I went off on her. The syrup hard to find, expensive, and that was just over the top. She went off on me saying she told me that he couldn’t have it in the house (she actually said he couldn’t have it upstairs) and it’s her house and she doesn’t like “that kind of stuff” in it. Huh??? Crazy woman!

I talked to my bestie and he said that Walmart carries the syrup in the summertime so I am taking my son there to get more today. Then we are going to put it in his room so she doesn’t see it. I told her it reminded me of when she would throw out any sugar that I brought home and that’s not how I raise my child. She said it’s her house so I told her that when I get a good job, she can have her house. I mean it too. That’s ridiculous! If she has sweets and sugary sodas (and being diabetic that’s not too smart), it’s okay but if me or my child has something sweet, she feels like she can throw it out? ARGH!!!!!!!

My son decided that since he didn’t want to go to the party with me and especially didn’t want to be here, he went to a friends house to spend the night. I don’t blame him, do you? So I haven’t spent any time with him since he came home yesterday and I want to! Now he’s asking me about going somewhere tonight too. I told him I’m not sure yet but we will talk about it.

Have a great Saturday!

17 thoughts on “Quincinera

  1. The guy wants to have babies with you? That made me laugh. What a first impression!
    Living with relatives is hard (or friends for that matter), I’ve done both. It’s a lot easier on your own. I am blessed, that way.

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  2. That party looks very fun! And yeah I’d say no to the baby making myself lol 😂. Your dress was pretty! I can’t be out til midnight. My social meter runs out by 10pm!

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  3. I feel sad for you. It is hard to be under the same roof. I sincerely hope you can one day buy your own home and be back to just visit her. As your mum ages, she will realise how much she needs you. But then, I could be wrong as my folks do not appreciate me, no matter how much I do or worry or help them. Such is life I guess. Try and have a good time with your son. He is growing up and has a good sense of what is right or wrong. If his nana is unreasonable, he will flip. Take care🤗

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  4. It is hard to live under the same roof. I think of me telling dad I’d take care of things and I know he’d be very unimpressed with mom right now.
    You look like you had a GREAT time, I’m glad you went!

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    1. I knew someone would be in the same situation! I didn’t know your dad asked the same thing! I hope my dad is not happy with her attitude.
      We did, I wished we could have stayed to dance but he was tired and was ready to go home.

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  5. Wow that guy coming on a little strong! Kinda weird. Well I’m sure your glad your sons home for sure!!! I’m sure you will get your quality time in. Living with parents when your grown is rough. I can’t even imagine.

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  6. Weirdo alert.! Mentioning babies without even a first date. I’d be avoiding that guy, although you did look great.
    That was a fifteen year old girl’s birthday party.? Are all parties that elaborate.? I wish I’d had that many cakes when I turned 15. 😀 Nice to see you having a good time.
    Living with Mama..? Noooooo, thank you. Total nightmare.! I live a good few hundred miles away from my mother, it’s safer that way. 😀

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    1. Yes, she was turning 15 and that’s a huge deal in Mexico. They had to have that many cakes because there were over 100 people there. It was fun, loud, chaotic, and I can’t wait for her other daughters! Maybe I will get invited to more of these.

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